how come when a gay man hits on a straight man he’s a “predatory gay” but when a straight man hits on a lesbian it’s a “challenge”
Kat. 21. Lesbian. Muse. Animals. Fandom. Hardcore feminism.
"The real world isn’t like that"
Yes, I know. We know.
Why do you think we’re trying to create a safe space, with trigger warnings, without slurs, where people actually treat us like we deserve respect?
Because we know what the real world is like. And the real world treats us like shit.
Anonymous asked: Why are men better at math then?
In fact, if you look at the statistical evidence available to you (looking at VCE and VET scores, high school testing, grades etc.), it would appear that women actually outperform their male counterparts in mathematical tasks in some cases, and in most others are equally as competent in their mathematics. Though as women get older, they are discouraged from pursuing degrees in STEM fields, so the volume of women in these courses drastically decreases.
An excerpt from Delusions of Gender by Cordelia Fine:
More recently, several large-scale studies have collected data that offer tests of the Greater Male Variability hypothesis by investigating whether males are inevitably more variable in math performance, and always outnumber females at the high end of ability. The answer, in children at least, is no. In a Science study of over 7 million United States schoolchidren, Janet Hyde and her team found that cross grade levels and states, boys were modestly more variable than girls. Yet when they looked at the data from Minnesota state assessments of eleventh graders to see how many boys and girls scored above the 95th and 99th percentile, an interesting pattern emerged. Among white children there were, respectively, about one-and-a-half and two boys for every girl. But among Asian American kids, the pattern was different. At the 95th percentile boys’ advantage was less, and at the 99th percentile there were more girls than boys. Start to look in other countries and you find further evidence that sex differences in variability are, well, variable. Luigi Guiso’s cross-cultural Science study also found that, like the gender gap in mean scores, the ratio of males to females at the high end of performance was something that changes from country to country. While in the majority of the forty countries studied there were indeed more boys than girls at the 95th and 99th percentiles, in four countries the ratios were equal or even reversed. (These were Indonesia, the UK, Iceland and Thailand.) Two other large cross-cultural studies of math scores in teenagers have also found that although males are usually more variable and outnumber girls at the top 5 percent of ability, this is not inevitably so: in some countries females are equally or more variable, or are as likely as boys to make it into the 95th percentile.
You and your misogyny can suck it.
[I]magine what would happen if, instead of centering our beliefs about heterosexual sex around the idea that the man “penetrates” the woman, we were to say that the woman’s vagina “consumes” the man’s penis. This would create a very different set of connotations, as the woman would become the active initiator and the man would be the passive and receptive party. One can easily see how this could lead to men and masculinity being seen as dependent on, and existing for the benefit of, femaleness and femininity. Similarly, if we thought about the feminine traits of being verbally effusive and emotive not as signs of insecurity or dependence, but as bold acts of self-expression, then the masculine ideal of the “strong and silent” type might suddenly seem timid and insecure by comparison.
tbh idek if i wanna do this anymore